it’s not that i’m getting older... it’s that i’m just smarter!

so, there's always a period that one goes through after high school where all the people they know are getting married... that is unless you are one of the ones that got married... but you get what i mean... you read in the paper, get an email, etc about people getting married... after that phase comes the "hey we had kids" phase which is the natural progression of things, but it seems right now i'm in the "hey we are getting a divorse" phase... this phases sucks and rocks at the same time... i mean, you hate to see your friend be unhappy and get a divorce, but it also means that you have more single friends again... it's bittersweet! it just is strange that within the past six months about 20 of my friends have gone through a divorce... and i never know if it's a bad thing or a good thing for them... because some people don't want to split, but do... and others need to split... you get what i'm saying... but i know nothing of such life... i am still here... and still single... i'm still debating if that's a bad thing or not...